I should've posted this on Friday, but I was having a bad weekend (and beginning of this week) with regards to this whole mess. DH made a special dinner on Friday and gave me a champagne flute of sparkling cider (since we had some lying around, no specific reason for it to be the cider) when I got home from work in order to celebrate us paying off the last of the medical bills from trying to get the IF checked out. That takes away a huge drain, since it was killing our finances paying a couple hundred a month. On the one hand, I am REALLY glad to not have that ruining our budgeting anymore. On the other, it's depressing to know that we just paid $1400 to learn nothing, money we would have been able to avoid having to pay if DH's company's HR department was willing to do their jobs and give us a copy of what was covered on the insurance plan when he asked for it.
I just keep surviving another day; that's all I can do. I try to appreciate the things I do have, and not paying a couple hundred in medical bills each month will make it easier to do things that at least make me happier temporarily.