I'm outing myself and DH to my church as infertile in about 10 hours. Some of the people we go to church with know about the infertility, but many do not. Some of that is because there are a lot of members who I don't know, either because of our merge with another church or because they have recently joined. Some of it is because I'm not sure the members of the church who remember me as a toddler really want to think about me in the way. A large part of it is that I did not want to spread DH's business all over the church.
As I was writing my sermon, though, I was writing about changing the world despite encountering resistance. As DH was reading what I had so far, part of his feedback was that it would be better if it was more personal and had more background. DH and I discussed whether or not to include this type of background in the sermon. DH ended up not having an opinion on whether to mention it or not, so I decided to do it. At this point, I'm more concerned about the sermon overall than I am about the infertility aspect, but we'll see how things go overall.